Going to high school is an experience of a lifetime. Everyone knows this, and you hear it enough times to get sick of it. Some people just think of it as something parents "HAVE" to tell their kids or something kids think their parents tell them just to get them scared. It's True High school is quite an experience. I think it is one of the best experiences you could ever have.
I mean people that didn't like high school are the people who look at the bad things that happened to them, and the bad decisions they made, the friends they lost. They never sit and think of the reasons why they lost those friends, why they made those decisions, why those things happened to them. High school is great. Bad things only happen if you let them happen. There are the occasional things that happen that you have no control of.. (car accidents, Broken bones.. etc.) but for the most part You have a say in what happens to you.. and its not just high school its life..
There are people that I started out friends with and some of them we have been friends since 1st grade.
Now don't think I'm sitting here complaining, because again.. I'm just thinking and realizing for myself. but anyways,
there are friends that I've Known forever, and we've grown apart due to different "clicks" and friends and interests. which is fine, we are still friends we just don't hang out and that's the way it should be. There are also those friends who you haven't known as long, but you've spent alot of time with, they did some things that got on your nerves or you didn't agree with but you were still their friend just because you realize that your not perfect either everyone has faults. You let them push you around a little, because there is no reason in making a big deal out of one comment right? exactly.. so they continue to push you around..
I however, don't agree with that or allow that to happen to me. So I stop hanging out with this person. I don't call her, I'll talk to them at school when I want to but I never go out of my way to talk to them, I don't spend the night at their house anymore, nothing. They get mad that I'm not giving them all the attention they desire and decides to try to make me mad by getting a "new best friend".. little did they know that I don't really care because I didn't want to hang out with them, and I wouldn't want them to be bored.. so whatever go for it! so then when they realize that I don't care they starts talking about me to her new "BFF" they make jokes, tell lies, stories... and have a good time being unhappy together. =] well I'm glad they have fun together.
Then, When that "new BFF" of thiers gets tired of them and stops hanging out with them so much, they come back to me and tries to be all "I love you cutie <333">KNOW me. It sucks going through drama and stuff like that, but the results are totally worth it and will help you through the rest of your life. I decided that they weren't the kind of person I wanted as a friend, and because of that, I have avoided conflicts and regrets that would have come from them.
THANK GOD!
I mean people that didn't like high school are the people who look at the bad things that happened to them, and the bad decisions they made, the friends they lost. They never sit and think of the reasons why they lost those friends, why they made those decisions, why those things happened to them. High school is great. Bad things only happen if you let them happen. There are the occasional things that happen that you have no control of.. (car accidents, Broken bones.. etc.) but for the most part You have a say in what happens to you.. and its not just high school its life..
"this isn't an entry telling people that they are stupid for letting things happen to them in high school, this is just something I am realizing myself."
There are people that I started out friends with and some of them we have been friends since 1st grade.
Now don't think I'm sitting here complaining, because again.. I'm just thinking and realizing for myself. but anyways,
there are friends that I've Known forever, and we've grown apart due to different "clicks" and friends and interests. which is fine, we are still friends we just don't hang out and that's the way it should be. There are also those friends who you haven't known as long, but you've spent alot of time with, they did some things that got on your nerves or you didn't agree with but you were still their friend just because you realize that your not perfect either everyone has faults. You let them push you around a little, because there is no reason in making a big deal out of one comment right? exactly.. so they continue to push you around..
again no big, they don't really mean it".. well eventually those little pushes get bigger, and bigger, and they bug you more and more.. they do a few things that were uncalled for, and they seem to be trying to start a conflict with everything you say or do. They want to be in your business 24/7 just so they have something to talk about with their other friends. this is one of those friends you don't want to have. one of those friends who Lives for drama, and is a very unhappy person.. and in order to be happy they have to make everyone else miserable.
I however, don't agree with that or allow that to happen to me. So I stop hanging out with this person. I don't call her, I'll talk to them at school when I want to but I never go out of my way to talk to them, I don't spend the night at their house anymore, nothing. They get mad that I'm not giving them all the attention they desire and decides to try to make me mad by getting a "new best friend".. little did they know that I don't really care because I didn't want to hang out with them, and I wouldn't want them to be bored.. so whatever go for it! so then when they realize that I don't care they starts talking about me to her new "BFF" they make jokes, tell lies, stories... and have a good time being unhappy together. =] well I'm glad they have fun together.
Then, When that "new BFF" of thiers gets tired of them and stops hanging out with them so much, they come back to me and tries to be all "I love you cutie <333">KNOW me. It sucks going through drama and stuff like that, but the results are totally worth it and will help you through the rest of your life. I decided that they weren't the kind of person I wanted as a friend, and because of that, I have avoided conflicts and regrets that would have come from them.
THANK GOD!
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